Sex nd the Dimple
Flopping over
Katie Knies '10
Issue date: 9/26/07 Section: Features
If you think about it, sex ends when the guy cums right? Women can have multiple orgasms but the show is over when he flops over. Because women are not really in tune with their bodies, our culture is influenced even more to sexually objectify the female body.
Here is where a woman starts to overreact, thinking she's coming across as too animalistic or becoming insecure about that little dot of cellulite that appears when she twists her leg a little bit to the right. Forget orgasm, they can't even enjoy close physical intimacy.
Unfortunately, women develop habits of censoring their own expression.
Shouldn't women be able to thrust, bust, moan and groan just like men, without feeling self-conscious or unlady-like? The problem is, women have undergone decades of negative socialization and this isn't going to change overnight.
Men who think this article is just for women, listen up. You cannot honestly say that a good pat on the back, an "oh baby this feels really good," or a "keep going," will not only encourage you, but give a little boost to that ego.
Ladies, men are nervous too. Contrary to what many believe, they actually want to push and twist for more than just their own pleasure.
Speaking up and showing how you feel creates a win-win situation; she gets to enjoy the moment and he gets to bask in glory for five minutes (well, lets hope for longer).
Isn't communication in a relationship of utmost importance? Ultimately, fulfilling sexual needs is a right everyone has. So moan for it, grind for it, scratch for it, sweat for it, just stop worrying about it, and for once embrace it.
Here is where a woman starts to overreact, thinking she's coming across as too animalistic or becoming insecure about that little dot of cellulite that appears when she twists her leg a little bit to the right. Forget orgasm, they can't even enjoy close physical intimacy.
Unfortunately, women develop habits of censoring their own expression.
Shouldn't women be able to thrust, bust, moan and groan just like men, without feeling self-conscious or unlady-like? The problem is, women have undergone decades of negative socialization and this isn't going to change overnight.
Men who think this article is just for women, listen up. You cannot honestly say that a good pat on the back, an "oh baby this feels really good," or a "keep going," will not only encourage you, but give a little boost to that ego.
Ladies, men are nervous too. Contrary to what many believe, they actually want to push and twist for more than just their own pleasure.
Speaking up and showing how you feel creates a win-win situation; she gets to enjoy the moment and he gets to bask in glory for five minutes (well, lets hope for longer).
Isn't communication in a relationship of utmost importance? Ultimately, fulfilling sexual needs is a right everyone has. So moan for it, grind for it, scratch for it, sweat for it, just stop worrying about it, and for once embrace it.
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